Which song do you want to play at your own farewell anyway?
Still Believe by Herman Brood & His Wild Romance.
Why this one?
“I’ve been a big fan of Herman Brood since my childhood. He experienced his glory days in the late 1970s, but I followed him before that time. He matched exactly the adolescent blues that I was going through at the time. At the time I was on a boys’ boarding school in Ter Apel and Herman often played in Groningen. Close by, but I was not allowed to go there.”
“I also recognized myself in Herman. I also kept myself going in life by doing tricks. This song is about a lost love that he hopes to find again, but for me it touches my deepest heartache. I’m like adopted a baby and it gave me an attachment problem I miss that unconditional love of a mother and this song makes me feel like it will come someday I even had Henk Schiffmacher get a tattoo with the lyrics of Still Believe. I continue to believe that I will still have that love.”
And what does it say about your life?
“That craving for love was a slumbering feeling that I often ran into. I am an emotional person and have had many relationships in my life, which often crashed. Then that song always came back. There have been times when I was very melancholy and then this song lifted me over it again. Just like with blues music, sinking into melancholy can sometimes also give a nice new start.”
“At 57 I wrote my biography, and I started a search for my biological father. My parents only had contact once. He was a journalist, and that world has always attracted me. It was nice to discover that love that I had before writing is apparently in my DNA. While writing my life story, the slumbering sadness logically reappeared. I had had contact with my biological mother before and just before her death we became a closer bond. I like to think that my faith in love has helped, because a touch of my dream and the feeling of Still Believe has become reality.”
Where do you prefer to listen to music?
“Especially at home. I like the footage, so I often put on YouTube. Or just Spotify and then the volume knob all the way up. I often listen in the car too. My wife and I have different tastes. She likes americana more and indie and I don’t know all that.”
“I’ve kind of stuck in the past. I like disco and soul for example. And ABBA. Their song SOS is also about a lost love and I have regularly cried tears over that. Just like om The kite by André Hazes. I can feel the sadness of that little boy through everything. I like more intelligent music, but for Hazes I make an exception. He also got along well with Brood. He wrote songs with a can of beer and a rhyming dictionary, and yet you feel pure soul with all those songs.”
How many lists do you have on Spotify?
“Oh, it’s full of lists. My wife and I have separate accounts, each with our own lists. Even Turn Up The Bass is in the middle with me, because I played regularly at 90s parties. I sold all my LPs for CDs and then got rid of them all. I do regret that. In front of street, the book that I am now writing about Herman Brood, I even had to buy the album again.”
What is your guilty pleasure?
“I had to ask my daughter what it is. There is nothing that I am ashamed of, but I do have to cross a border for Dutch music such as Hazes. I class myself under a different type of movement. I am as a child infected with flower power by my adoptive family.”
“My biological mother was a popular lady, who listened to Hazes and the Zangeres Zonder Naam. I learned to appreciate that. Because of her, but also because of the ‘Dutch evenings’ where I was sometimes allowed to DJ in the community center. do you impose a kind of label on someone and apparently I have some difficulty with the popular label myself, although Hazes can touch me to the depths.”
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